This morning started with getting breakfast for the crew, everyone behaved. I then opened the patio door and both Sasha and Dillon vanished for the mornings play session. I started work. Today again was working on some audio stuff with Stephen. Filtering and transmission wobbles,all made a nice change.

Dogs came in and fell asleep. I took them for a walk together, one on a chain lead the other on a rope lead, both the same length. It was great. It was like walking one slightly wide dog, they both walked beautifully in parallel. Everyone said they were a really handsome couple. Sasha seemed to be a lot better when we met other dogs. We had a nice long walk. The only odd thing was one had to pee about every three minutes and the other had to wait. Came back, they downed about three pints of water and then fell asleep.

They actually continued to sleep all afternoon. I carried on working but got a hell of a headache at about 4PM, I took some Neurophen which didn’t work, so went for codeine which work, but then zapped me completely. Still work was done.

Fed the dogs, again no problems and we all fell asleep again until Jamie got home. I then watched the ‘geek’ remake of Knightmare, which had Dan and Phil in, that brought back some memories. Strange that I thought the Dungeon Master was dead, actually after a google he isn’t.

Gave the dogs a Kong each, they seemed okay to actually have one each this time. I think I may get a drinking fountain for them as I’m getting pissed off having to keep refilling all the bowls.

Torture porn night, Dillons first one.

Oh, one other quick thing, got an email from Virgin Media, my cable line has been upgraded to 120mbps and upload is now 10mpbs. Nice upgrade for nowt.

I woke up at 6:20 which was good enough. Took Sasha to daycare, Dillon was slightly put out that he wasn’t going anywhere. I think Sasha was quite happy to have a little break.

Went back to bed. Then rudely awaken at 9, by the cleaners phoning saying they would be here in twenty minutes. They arrived in ten. I quickly grabbed cereal and coffee and booted up the systems (both electrical and physical). So started work in good time.

Today working on audio code for Stephen, nothing really complicated, just quite a lot of math. Think I got most of it going in the end. Took Dillon out lunchtime, he’s actually a joy to walk on his own. I have no fear of meeting other dogs with Dillon, he just lies down and wags his tail. Got back and got back on with work. Picked up Sasha, she was quite happy, Dillon was happy when she was home. They both settled down quite quickly to sleep. I finished off work, gave them their tea and then I took Dillon out for another walk as Sasha was still very tired. Walked all the way over to Sarah’s and should them Dillon, who behaved beautifully, he is such a sweetie. Walked back, had a shower, ate salad. Now sat down with a glass of wine.

I’m feeling somewhat better today (health wise), although my teeth are all hurting, I really need to see the dentist and get them sorted next week, but it’s all been a bit stressful lately. I also want to get more ‘copter lessons, again, let’s get a few things out of the way first. The oddest image I’ve ever seen was on facebook today. The image of Nat’s coffin, after it was decorated by her kids. Not sure where I am with that at the moment, all still a bit surreal.

So last night I ended up sitting in the bath, getting somewhat upset, thinking about what I’m going to write on a coffin. The coffin in question belongs to my ex. girlfriend, well when I say ‘belongs’ she’s not exactly the owner, more the occupant. The idea is everyone gets the opportunity to write a message on the side of her coffin before she is buried. Okay, she’s never going to get to read it (well, not that I’m aware of anyway), but it still needs to be personal and have a meaning. I’ve got a pretty good idea of what I’m going to put, but did warn Jamie that when the time comes I may not be able to do it, apart from that his handwriting is far better than mine.

I’d don’t normally get very upset or cry, death really doesn’t upset me too much. Dad died, wasn’t a major upset, too much water under the bridge about that one (one day I’ll write the story of the burnt boat, that upsets me more every time I think about it than anything else). Grandparents died, again, not much. I think the last time I got really upset (now this is slightly ironic) is when ‘Nat’ died, not Natalie, but a small baby lizard I had. She died in my hand. Before that, probably, Judy, who was a dog. My parents dog, she died 19/4/89, there, a date that sticks in my mind forever. I couldn’t even tell you what year my dad died, let alone the day, I think it was the day before New Years but couldn’t count on it. Natalie’s death (back to the girl, not the lizard) did hit me a lot, we were together for about six years. We went on lots of holidays, we even had lots of very kinky sex. She made me sandwiches. And the last gift from me? Will be some obscure epitaph scrawled on the side of the box carrying her body.

I did wake up this morning after a good nights sleep. I felt so much better today than yesterday. I’ve had quite a nasty headache all day, but thankfully I’m not as bunged up. Although I could stick up a room full of wallpaper with the amount of snot that’s come out of my left nostril.

Work wise actually was very good. Bit of a day of two halves there. First half, not really an awful lot done. Then we took the dogs out lunchtime, Jamie has yet another day off, I’m sure he’s been fired or something, never seems to work any more. We had a lovely walk, I took Sasha and Jamie took Dillon. We walked through the nature reserve which was the first time for Dillon. He was pulling quite a bit, but was so friendly with other dogs. It seems to rub off a bit on Sasha as well as if he has a good greeting then she seems to be less defensive. We finished off up at the vets where he was weighed (21.6Kg) so a little bit lighter than Sasha. He’s all signed up now and I have his first lot of flea and worm stuff. I’ll do him tomorrow when Sasha is at daycare.

Afterwards I had lunch and then worked till quite late in the evening. Headache was still pounding, but I actually finished the first version of the renderer code. So tomorrow I’m doing a bit of audio work for Stephen.

Had a shower and then ate salad. I’m now lying on the couch with Dillon. He’s fast asleep and has on of his paws resting on my foot.

He’s getting on fine with Sasha, I think he tires her out, she’s upstairs fast asleep I expect. They do enjoy playing with each other, but still trying to work out the boundaries. They’ll both have a break tomorrow as I’ll take Sasha to daycare as normal.

I won’t write it, although I think it’s something she would find highly amusing…”Return to sender”.

I didn’t sleep an awful lot last night, nothing to do with the new dog Dillon, he was really well behaved. They both started the night on the couch, later Sasha went to her usual bed. I went down at about 3AM and let them out, Sasha went straight back upstairs and Dillon back on the couch. By 4AM I was very grouchy and ill. I made a hot lemon for myself and let everyone out again. When I got back upstairs Dillon was fast asleep on my side of the bed, as this was his first night and he seemed very comfortable I moved to the spare bedroom, which as it turns out was a blessing in disguise as I managed to get some sleep.

This morning though I posted in sick as my eyes couldn’t focus, which is bloody useless when you’re trying to look at a monitor for more than ten minutes, plus my head wasn’t really with it all bunged up. My throat was absolutely killing, this brought bad some very odd memories….

When I was about eight years old, we’d just moved into Cranbrook Road. I was unpacking all my stuff into wardrobes which currently had no doors on as they had just been built. I was at Junior school at the time (yes the same one I visited a few weeks ago). I couldn’t find my Hymn book, we were all told we’d need it the following week or we’d have to buy a new one (the actual figure sticks in my mind as well as it was in big writing in a circle on the front cover, it was 75P). I searched through all the cupboards and I couldn’t find it. Dad started throwing various shelves of stuff everywhere, getting in a complete piss. I started crying, I remember I was by the window at the time. He then glared at me and picked me up by my throat, then through me about 16 feet across the room, I hit the far wall. About 22 years later when he was in bed dying and I was hand feeding him stuff from a pot, I asked him if he could recall the incident, he said he couldn’t specifically, but, ‘I’d probably deserved it’. I looked back at him, at that point I thought the exact same thing about him.

Dillon and Sasha have had their first full day together, as I was ill this has been slightly skewed. Jamie had the day booked off though, so he took Sasha out first followed by Dillon. They both seemed fairly happy. For the rest of the day they have gone between playing, eating bones and sleeping. I had no problems at breakfast or tea times, both went to their respective bowls, afterwards, they both checked each others to make sure there were no remains. There have been a couple of growls today, but mainly where Sasha has got tired and tried to hide under the bed and he’s come along and wound her up. I’ve now trained him to sit, stay and beg. As I write this dribbling in my own mucus lying on the bed, Dillon is by the bedroom door, flat out on his side asleep and Sasha is a couple of feet behind him, flat out on her bed. So all happy families.

Hopefully tomorrow I’ll be feeling better and someone less resentful to past family members. It’s Natalie’s funeral on Saturday.

Yesterday I felt like shit and didn’t really do a great deal. I picked up a sand pit from Toy’s R’ Us or whatever it’s called, which required mothers help as it wouldn’t quite fit in my car. I drove to Cotham, it rained, I drove back. Jamie required picking up late, so I made myself a curry and watched some good telly.

Today was a bit of an upheaval for all of us. We got up and went out at 11, including Sasha. Went to Hollyhedge. Thankfully the weather was kind and it was dry while we were there. We met Flynn again and he still got on fine with Sasha, so paper work was done and he was loaded in the car. He travelled fine. We got back home and basically all has been pretty good. They’ve had a couple of ‘set to’s’ regarding bones but apart from that they have played together really nicely. I think they are going to be a great brother and sister. Although at this point he has completely tired her out. He’s pee’d in a couple of places he shouldn’t, but it’s early days, we’ll soon sort this out. I think he and Sasha are going to get on just fine.

Played with a couple of Mame roms, ready to order our arcade cabinet.

Jamie buggered off fairly early to head over to ‘Summer of Sonic’, there will be blue spunk flying everywhere. So it’s just me and the dog for a couple of days.

Still working on renderer stuff, but now have a lot less todo’s than I started with. Did a debug font and line drawing today, all done and tested on the target.

Walked the dog, we did the wet route today as it looked like it was about to rain at any point, it didn’t. She did get rather upset that we didn’t turn right at the lights to head over to Almondsbury. Came back did more work. Did the washing. Went to Body Pump, which was fun. Feeling somewhat ‘snotty’ I think it’s down to the weather.

Came back and did some more work. Now I think it’s bath time. I’ll give the dog a pigs trotter I think, she’s been a very good girl lately and this weekend may be a bit stressful for her.

I can’t honestly remember a lot about yesterday, which in a way is probably a good thing. It means it was dull, ordinary and no one died. Every now and then a day like that is appreciated.

Today however was somewhat more eventful. Work was fine, got a few things done early morning, after taking madam to daycare. Oddly on the way back I almost saw a wonderful collision caused by a woman pulling out of a driveway half asleep and not looking where she was going. Thankfully the driver coming the other way had obviously had his morning coffee so just stopped and looked at her in disbelief.

Anyway, had to vanish mid morning to sort out a few things which I’m not going into here as they relate to someone else. But while we were out we took the opportunity to visits Flynn at Holly Hedge again, but this time without Sasha. When we went to his kennel he was just chilling by the inner door, he came straight over to us and his tail never stopped wagging. We got him out and into the exercise yard. Certainly without the distraction of Sasha he was very attentive and playful, he hasn’t quite got the hang of what to do after he’s chased the ball yet, but we’ll teach him that. I almost managed to teach him sit in about ten minutes. Anyway we had a good play with him, he’s great on a tug toy, if we can get Sasha on the other end of it we’ll be sorted. We took him for a short walk where he pulled like hell and peed on everything, again, nothing we haven’t experienced before. So we popped him back in his kennel and said good bye. I’m pretty sure his name was not actually ‘Flynn’ as I know the signage system they use. We will change his name anyway. We said we will go back on Sunday with Sasha and providing they don’t eat each other then we’ll take him home.

Came back and did more work. Then I went for a run, really needed it as I was feeling somewhat fat (and also looking somewhat fat). Actually really enjoyed it. Came back, had a shower, then we went to Pet’s are Us or whatever it’s called and picked up a bowl, a collar and a name tag, just on the off chance we take the dog…

Came back and did more work. It’s been a day of lots of work chunks, but actually great progress. Time for tea now, may be a little wine and some telly. Tomorrow hopefully will be one of those boring days.

Cracked on with today’s joyous work, which was renderer code again. Not very eventful.

We decided to go and have a look at a dog in Hollyhedge called ‘Flynn’, he is a nine month old Husky-Staffy cross. Nice looking dog, got on okay with Sasha, well I say got on okay, he did spend most of his time trying to hump her. She didn’t have a go at him, I thought she tolerated him quite well. Flynn didn’t seem too interested in me though. We have a reserve on him. I think we need to go back and play with him without Sasha.

Came back and worked well into the night, punctuated with Body Combat, which I gave all to and slept very well.