Lots of details have been omitted. They may be added in later posts, but at the end of the day this is two peoples lives I’m discussing here, neither of which I have any interaction with anymore.

So a few weeks back I got some very strange messages from my ex. husband. Including multiple messages about feet and several rather alarming photos (you can’t do me for libel as you’re not famous). To the point he then said it hadn’t worked out with husband No.2. I was somewhat surprised at this as I thought they were very well suited.

Apparently, he has found, ‘new friends’. And on the advice of the same person who told him to split up with me, told him to split up with husband No.2.

Now from what I can gather (and I have multiple sources, including a friend who goes to the same church), this all started in about October last year. He met up with a ‘bear’ (Google it) around October time. There is a very strange Instagram post from this bloke about ‘how I met someone incredibly influential who affected my life’. This ‘bear’ is an ‘influencer’ and an ‘adult content creator’.

So the ex. left the church around the same time, changed his ‘friend group’ entirely. The church is of course what he left me for. With me he found all these ‘new people’ and now he’s done exactly the same thing, except it’s no longer religious people, it’s now ‘bears who produce adult content’. It’s fucking Deja Vu, but eerily on a shorter timescale, maybe it’s decreasing orbits.

So he’s broken up with his husband and by all accounts blamed him completely. If that isn’t the definition of ‘gaslighting’, I don’t know what is. I can’t 100% confirm it, but it appears he’s also turned up in an ‘ad’ or ‘influencer’, no idea what you call it, for a male supplement to use if you are a ‘bottom’.

So congratulations, you’ve left your husband with a broken heart, a fucked up head, and your bloody dog.

Sounds familiar? Sadly my ex. husband isn’t a very nice person. Hopefully karma will get its retribution. Time will tell.